How do I get my partner to ____________
A couple of pieces of advice for getting more adventurous with your Flame🔥:
1) 🏅Be worthy of the adventure🏅 Show that you are trustworthy, caring, interested in their pleasure first, careful of their physical and emotional state. Try the things that they want to do and show that you are "GGG" (Good, Giving, and Game, coined by Dan Savage who offers excellent advice on his podcast).
2) 🗣Tell them🗣 Let them know what you want to try. Do this without expectation. It might be that your partner will want to think about the idea for a while before they are even interested (if they do get interested).
3) 🗒 Start small 🗒 Is there a simple version of the adventure that will be pleasurable for your partner? If you want to explore anal, perhaps try some exterior touching or light finger play. For role play, try talking about a scene with that role play, from a movie or porn or a fantasy you have.
4) 🚫Respect their boundaries🚫 Some things are a hard no. Respect that and let it go. If this is a dealbreaker, that's for you to decide, but No is No. And disrespecting a boundary is the key way to ensure that your partner trusts you less with any adventure or exploration in the future.